and cute story to add: lucy loves baths. i've mentioned it before. baths fall under dave's "tasks" in our home. i've never even given eli one bath. dave loves giving them baths, and he's good at it. anyway, last friday, dave said, "lucy, are you ready for your bath?", and she ran to the bathroom in record time. (i think that would be a yes.) i stood in the doorway watching them prepare everything (dave, getting the appropriate water temp, lucy throwing the toys in one by one), and lucy came to the door, said, "bye mommy!" and closed it on me! it was the funniest thing. mommy doesn't give me baths so her presence isn't warranted!